In the U.S., there are certain customs about little ones that may differ from yours.
Time for Bed! In Spain, for example, it is not unusual for very young children to be out with their families at 10 or 11 at night. Not so in the U.S. Many of us are brought up to believe that children under school age should be in bed by 7:00 or 8:00 p.m., and in the summer, by dark. If you are out with your infant or youngster late at night, you may get some curious or judgmental looks. What we’re thinking is, Why isn’t that kid in bed? N.B. This rule is relaxed during major secular and religious holidays, for example, Independence Day (July 4th), Christmas Eve (December 24th), and New Year’s Eve. It is starting to become more acceptable to have children out later in some communities as families try to adjust to very full schedules.
Fine Dining with Baby?—Not! In the U.S. it is customary not to bring infants or very young children to expensive restaurants, especially for dinner. There will be no highchairs or toddler’s seats available, and it is understood that children’s crying or “shenanigans” may disturb other customers. Perhaps it’s unfortunate, but so it is.
Breastfeeding in Public? A hot issue. Whether due to squeamishness, our Puritan heritage, or concern for women and children’s safety (what if someone tries to steal your purse while you’re feeding baby?), some Americans do not favor breastfeeding in public but some do favor breastfeeding in public. In New York City there is a law allowing breastfeeding anywhere, but it is controversial. However, in many public malls there are separate breastfeeding rooms with comfortable chairs, and in most restrooms there is at least a bench that you can sit on.
Where Can I Change the Baby ? Good question. There are definitely not enough public facilities for changing babies. Changing stations can be found in women’s rooms at airports, some train and bus stations, most department stores and children’s toy stores, and happily, at many Barnes and Noble bookstores. They are also starting to become more popular in men's restrooms as well. Malls, stores and other kid-friendly establishments (zoos, etc.) are also starting to include "family restrooms", where there are dual sinks and toilets - one set being shorter for toddlers, as well as changing stations all in one larger room with a separately locking door.
